If you have erection problems you can experience many emotions, including anger and disgust. That is understandable, but you should not shut out your partner if you are trying to deal with your erectile dysfunction. Your partner, since it also faces the consequences. And good communication is essential not only for establishing the diagnosis and solving problems, it can also help to let your partner understand what you're going through. You will also feel relieved when your partner is aware and you know you are not alone.
Many men dare to admit their problems to their partners because they fear a negative reaction. The practice, however, indicates that the partner is almost always a positive reaction and had already noticed that something was amiss. In order not to hurt you or the pressure to perform he / she is not even.
The best way to communicate with your partner is talking openly about sex and your relationship. Try, however difficult that may seem at first, feeling shame and discomfort aside. If you can talk to each other without restrictions you problems (faster) solution.
Tips to trigger the conversation:
- Explain your situation in a straightforward manner without facts to distort or omit. Your doctor can give information about erection problems you and your partner can go through.
- Discuss the various treatment options with your partner.
- Try different ways to enjoy sex together.
- Keep communication open at all times.
- Consider common sex therapy.
